Nothing
has shaped
the image of Spartan women in the popular imagination more than the
alleged
admonishment of Spartan mothers to their sons to return from war either
with
their shield or upon it. The image of brave mothers who would prefer to
see their sons dead rather than disgraced has captured the imagination.
Yet like so many aspects of conventional wisdom about
Sparta, it is probably a complete
fabrication.
Let’s start by
looking at the sources. Plutarch includes no less than seventeen “sayings” that
he attributes to “Spartan women”, all of which appear to corroborate a
widespread attitude among Spartan matrons consistent with the laconically
expressed sentiment “with it or upon it”. In no less than three of these,
fiercely patriotic mothers kill, with their own hands, cowardly sons who have
failed to live up to their ideal. In others, the mothers revile their sons in
insulting language –
for example,
suggesting they crawl back into the womb. In their mildest form, these
sayings
portray matrons who have lost sons in battle cheerfully going about
their
business rather than grieving. In two, when a mother learns of the death
of a son from another male relative (in one case a second son and in
the
other her brother), she suggests that he (the relative) join the dead.
In one,
a woman is even portrayed losing five sons in battle but announcing she
is glad
because the battle itself was won.
Aside from the fact
that undoubtedly many of these sayings are simply different versions derived
from the same original source, almost all are anonymous. I am always suspicious
of anonymous sources regardless of context, and this fact alone makes me
question the veracity of the sayings. Admittedly, since it was considered dishonorable for an (Athenian) woman to be talked about, one might argue that Plutarch did
not name names (or his sources didn’t) out of respect for the women involved;
but that does not explain why the cowardly sons chastised or murdered by their
mothers – much less the
heroic sons whose deaths are not mourned – are not identified. Surely there was no reason not
to name cowards and heroes, since this would shame the former and honor the
latter in future generations?
In addition to the
issue of anonymity, the sayings lack any kind of detail that would enable them
to be dated or otherwise put into context. This likewise detracts from their
authenticity. They are all vague and generic, as if they are at best apocryphal
or at worst bad fiction.
But the sayings
are implausible for two concrete reasons as well. First, given the fact that
Sparta fought most of her battles far from home, one wonders how the sons of
these patriotic matrons managed not only to break the Spartan line and flee the
battle, but also to escape the wrath of their comrades and the discipline of
their officers? Presumably the Spartan army had very little tolerance for
cowards, so the sons had to desert from the army altogether and sneak back to Lacedaemon
to seek the aid of their mothers. Here, others sources tell us, they would be
treated as “tremblers” and suffer civic sanctions. This begs the question of
why any Spartan who failed to do his duty in war would risk being seen in
Sparta at all – and what they
could possibly expect of their mothers?
Second,
and even
more telling against the probability that these sayings are genuine, is
the simple fact that Spartans buried their dead near the field where
they fell. This means that the last half of the famous saying “with it
[your
shield] or upon it” is utter nonsense. Sparta’s
battle
dead were not brought home on their shields, but as Nigel Kennel puts it
in Spartans:
A New History (p. 157), “served as tangible signs of
their city’s ability to project power”. No Spartan mother would have been
unaware of this custom.
Turning from the
issue of authenticity, let’s reflect more closely on the content of the
sayings. At their best, the sayings portray a soldierly ideal of “do or die”
being reinforced and shared even by that one element of any society that would
be most easily forgiven for not supporting it: the mothers of soldiers. Telling
a son in the abstract to return victorious or not at all is certainly not
unique to Sparta. Patriotic mothers have allegedly done that in every society
caught up in what the women believed to be a just war.
Yet the sayings
collected by Plutarch go considerably further. They portray women who are so
patriotic that they rejoice at the death of their sons, or tell
surviving sons to follow the example of their dead brothers. Worse, in three
cases the mothers are so fanatical as to kill their sons with their own hands.
Is there anything appealing, attractive, or admirable about such creatures?
The answer is no – and, I believe,
that is exactly as it was intended to be. I believe these sayings did not
originate in Sparta at all.
Why would the
Spartans have had an interest in remembering and repeating incidents (five of
Plutarch’s sayings) in which Spartan soldiers first failed to absorb the ethos
of their society and then fled in the face of the enemy to run home to their
mothers? These sayings, after all, don’t just portray ideologically radicalized
mothers (who incidentally failed to raise their sons to share their values),
but young men who singularly fail to live up to the ideal of their society as a
whole. The young men who return alive have ostensibly all gone through the
Spartan agoge and are members of Spartan dining clubs and soldiers in her army.
And yet, according to these sayings, they still don’t live by the code. In
short, these sayings imply, the entire Spartan upbringing was highly
ineffective. It hardly seems reasonable that the Spartans would have an
interest in recording and remembering such young men – no matter how
patriotic their mothers were.
Furthermore,
if
the purpose was to reinforce the ethos of “victory or death”, then
anonymous
women and anonymous sons would have been blunt, indeed useless,
instruments. It would have been more effective to name names -- to tell how the survivors of
Thermopylae (with name and patronymic) were reviled by their named
mothers? If the Spartans wanted to make examples of patriotic mothers,
they would
have chosen real incidents from real wars and identified the brave women
and
their abhorrent sons by name. Nor would they have made the mistake of
suggesting that Sparta’s victorious dead were brought home on their
shields.
Sparta’s enemies,
on the other hand, had no need for real names or real battles and no need to be
particularly accurate about details (like where one buries one’s dead), because
the intended audience was domestic. If the purpose of these sayings was to
reinforce the “Feindbild” (the image of the enemy) – to make sure that even
Sparta’s women were seen as enemies – then the more generic the stories were, the better.
That way they became applicable to all times, to every battle, to every enemy
soldier, to every Spartan mother.
I believe these
sayings attributed to Spartan women were, in fact, enemy propaganda. They were
intended to portray the women – even the “little old ladies” – of Sparta as
repulsively different from normal (read: good) Athenian/Theban/Arcadian
mothers, who naturally all adore their sons. The point is to depict Spartan
women (always the object of horrified fascination on the part of other Greek
males) as lacking even that most primeval of all instincts: the maternal
instinct. Spartan mothers are shown to be unnatural,
unfeminine creatures that deserve no sympathy even in their adversity. The
sayings tell Sparta’s enemies that there is no need to pity Sparta’s women as
one did, for example, the Trojan women. Go ahead, the sayings insinuate, kill
their sons; because if we don’t kill them in battle, the abominations in female
form who gave them life, the Spartan mothers themselves, will kill them when
they get home.
As enemy
propaganda against Sparta, these sayings had another even subtler message:
namely, that Sparta’s legendary hoplites were really just a bunch of cowardly
mama’s boys. Collectively these sayings suggest that Spartan soldiers, far from
fighting to the death even in a hopeless situation, would run all the way home
to their mothers, if only they got the chance. Why should any normal
Athenian/Theban/Arcadian young man fear an army made up of a bunch of mama's boys?
As propaganda
devised by Sparta’s enemies, these sayings served a dual purpose. First, they
contributed to the overall image of Spartan women as repulsive, because they
showed that in addition to being licentious as young women and adulterous as
wives, Spartan women were heartless mothers. Second, they counteracted the
legendary image of Sparta’s men as the spiritual descendants of Leonidas’
legendary band of 300, ready to fight tooth and nail even in a hopeless
situation.
As propaganda
intended for a domestic audience, these sayings diminished fear, bolstered
courage, and undermined any sense of identification with the foe. And as such,
they tell us something about Sparta’s enemies and their need to counter awe of
Sparta’s young men and sympathy for Sparta’s mothers. What they do not do is
tell us anything whatsoever about Spartan women.
What is tragic is
that so many modern readers take them at face value.
The
above essay first appeared in "Sparta: Journal of Ancient Spartan and
Greek History," Vol. 7, Issue 4, 2011, pp.24-26. It is reprinted here
with the permission of the editors of "Sparta."
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